How to make people like you instantly.
In my previous post "How to Win Friends and Influence People", we have explored the first five ways to make people like you, and they are
1. Become genuinely interested in other people.
3. Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
4. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
5. Talk in terms of the other person's interests.
As humans, all of us crave to be appreciated. I am not referring to cheap insincere flattery here, but honest sincere appreciation.
The truth is that almost everybody that you meet feel that they are superior to you in some way. Why not let them realize in a subtle way that you recognise their importance and recognise it sincerely.
Show Respect to Others
Always show respect to others. Fill your vocabulary with phases such as "I'm sorry to trouble you," "Would you be so kind as to -" "Won't you please?" "Would you mind" and "Thank you."
Little courtesies like these grease the gears of everyday life and make our daily existance a nice and smoother one.
As humans, we should do our best to try and radiate a little happiness and pass on a bit of honest appreciation to others, even if we do not get anything in return. The fact that you managed to make someone feel a tiny bit better about themselves is reward enough.
Why not say something nice to somebody else. It could be a family member, a friend, or even a complete stranger. Make the other person feel important, and do it sincerely.
Make someone else happy, today.
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